I will love you through the simple & the struggle.

I don’t think you’re a slut at all, people make mistakes. It’s probably going to be hard, but I would let both of them know that there’s a 50/50 chance that either of them could be the father of the baby. Have a private conversation with each of them, and let them know what happened. It’s going to be hard to tell them you don’t know who the father is, but I think talking to them and letting them know the situation is better than to keep them out of the loop. Once the baby is born, DNA testing can be done right away, and you’ll find out which guy is a ‘match’ and is the father after a week or so. Have you told either of them that you’re pregnant? It’s going to be a tough road ahead of you because you aren’t sure who the father is, but in the end you will have it figured out, and hopefully the boy that is the father, will step up the plate and be one. Hopefully it goes okay for you. Sorry if I’m not much help, but overall I think you should just be honest with the both of them!

I think they should get a room :P Keep it out of the hallways! Making out in public is bad enough. Haha (: Seems a little trashy to me.

Come off anon! (: I’m dealing with that kind of thing right now. Natalie’s dad and I will be going through family court in a couple months more than likely. It is really, really stressful. Especially because I don’t trust her dad. That’s what makes it so hard. The whole process is tough, but whenever you go through it, tell the judge exactly what you want, and stand up for it. You’re the mother, and honestly in my opinion, if the mother is a fit parent, I always think that she knows best. Back yourself up in every way possible. It’s going to be really hard, but in the end (even if it takes a while), something will end up working out. At least that’s how I look at it. I know this isn’t the best answer, but seriously, feel free to message me any time. I know exactly what you’re going through right now, and I know how hard it is. I love my daughter more than anything, and the thought of her being away from me scares me to death. We can always talk more about it if you want any support! Something will end up working out for you. Try not to worry. If the courts do give him rights and make him pay child support, they won’t just hand your baby over to him. It will more than likely start with supervised visitations, which may make you feel a little better about things in the beginning. It’s a long process, but hopefully everything will work out.